(for our very first Wednesday Wanderings)
While Sipping Tea in the Garden
It seems to me that this world could benefit hugely from outright optimistic individuals. They move on despite the difficulties and are quite sure that lack of honesty does not pay in reality – let alone in fiction. To some extent, this may make you feel like Pollyanna however: can’t we bring this to reality?
Some time ago, I was impressed by a Jeff’s post calling us to take our stand against censorship (please read it – visit him via Doc’s Fearless Links). He disregarded the fact he could be a single voice and actually found readers who could listen to him and spread the news. Things are right or wrong irrespective of which side we are on – could it be called ethics? As an extension of this thought, I wondered if we would be able to let go of our personal benefits or our comfortable opinions so that the group as a whole would be benefitted. Would you call it weakness? Would you be ashamed/afraid of being called ‘weak’?
Once I crashed my car which led me to an overnight stay in the hospital – the typical chance for a review of a number of my attitudes. Funny how we need such turning points in life, as though there were not any milestones around us every day. While disregarding this, days, months, years pass by and then - out of the blue - voilà: we are in a well-kept fortress. How could we lay the bridge down to access this fortress? That would be a small act of enormous generosity indeed. Have you genuinely paid attention to the ones around you? It is risky and frightening to feel fragile, isn’t it?
C’mon be fearless!
PS.: I will be away for a few weeks yet eager to read your thoughts upon return
Movie Recommendations
I’m totally recommending a film that I saw yesterday in Cinemax, called, “Nina’s Tragedies.”
A very nice Jewish film about human relation and love. If this film do not move something on you, you are rock solid...
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For the girls, especially, I am recommending “The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants” – it’s about 4 best friends who find something beautiful and self-affirming in themselves one summer – and there are these magic jeans … I watched it two times in 2 days!
Music Recommendation
Black Roses Red: Alana Grace – “can you turn my black roses red …?”
Unwritten: Natasha Bedingfield – “no one else can speak the words on your lips … live your life with your arms wide open. Today is where your book begins, the rest is still unwritten”
You’re Beautiful: James Blunt – “you’re beautiful, it’s true …”
11 comments:
Hi Doc - The film poster makes difference! Thanks for the addition.
I will check the Israaeli movie upon my return from the trip. The girl on the poster reminded me of Drew Barrymore (ok, forget her round face).
Despite the fact that all Brazilian radio stations play Blunt's You're beautiful 24/7, it is still possible to say that he is cool.
Caco - I wanted you to know that your personal story touched me a lot and, as always, made to re-assess my perspective. Thank you!
Sometimes it does take a "jolt" to the system to build a bridge back to the conscience. Your writing needed no poster - but you know I like pictures.
You are so right - there is a Drew Barrymore resemblance! I thought of an Italian actress, Monica Bellucci too. I will look out for this movie.
Oh - Caco agreed - "You're beautiful" is beauitful - and James Blunt never crosses my mind for "cool". That's reserved for Pierce Brosnan :-)
Big hug to you and thank you again - I think a lot of people will appreciate what you shared! Bon voyage and ate mais
180, 000, 001 Heart
Oh stupid me - I never got something in to your Wednesday Rambling. Oh well, there must be an other Wednesday coming up at an other point.
Perhaps it is for the better this way, because I am more drawn towards the visual. So I will provide a picture for your Monday Sunderings ... or whatever you call it.
You know what I mean.
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity ; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.
so we should feel like Pollyanna:)for a happier life.Sometimes hard but ....
Yes Caco your story touched me too,thanx for sharing
I also like the rest of the posts too;
Thank you Nazlıcımm and Fernando
Wishing you a nice wednesday:)))
I think "It's a wonderful life" was voted the most insporational movie ever in a recent survey. My most inspirational movie is "Jesus of Montreal" see it if you ever get a chance.
Oh, and seeing you are a James Blunt fan, there was an interesting interview with him on Tv here recently. You can read a transcript at:
http://www.abc.net.au/tv/enoughrope/transcripts/s1618124.htm
Wow....
That was very cool to get a mention for something as simple as voicing your opinion.
For this very reason we still have nations that don't allow people to question their intentions and also we have the repression by most religious institutions.
I find this sad for the simple reason that without questioning there is no way of ever finding the right answers to life. This of course does not mean that we will always find the answers we seek, but at least we're looking.
If one chooses to stay quiet and not say what's on our minds then we have no right to complain or have opinions.
Thanks doc, and caco.
Nazli - I have seen Sisterhood of Travelling Pants and I cried so much lol. At first I thought I was silly to cry in such a "teenage" film, but then I saw how real it all was - great recommendation!!
Caco - I am just now learning to become fearless, I don't like to be fragile and vulnerable but I have gotten to a point in life where I don't see any advantages in "pretending to be" strong. Thanks for your story and post!!
Fer - I have not seen Nina’s Tragedies, but it is now on my list and I will tell you what I think once I see it :-)
Jeff - May the Force be with you!
Doc - Leaving home tomorrow, looking forward to the days ahead with open eyes and mind. Hope my NatGeo blogfellows will be proud of me on return! Thanks for the comment - miss you already!
GO BRASILLLLLLLLLLL!!! ;-)
What a team - Brasil! I smile with Ronaldinho!
nice post.
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